AU PAIR
SOLUTION invites you and your family to enjoy an enriching and rewarding
experience of becoming a host family. Every year, AU PAIR SOLUTION welcomes
many foreign students to Ireland. Staying with a family is a very important
part of learning
English and becoming familiar with Irish culture and way of life. For
both our culture and
our economy, it's a mutually rewarding experience.
For the host family,
it's a fascinating
and rewarding experience, and an opportunity to see Ireland through
fresh eyes and to
get a window into another culture. For your generosity of spirit, you'll
be financially rewarded for each student who stays with you. AU PAIR
SOLUTION have dedicated
Student Welfare Officer in all Irish counties, who ensures that our
Host family standards
are maintained.
Update:
Over the last month Home Stay Host Families have asked me a few important questions which I will answer below. Please read them as it might help your query.
1. Do I pay the €50 Home Stay Application fee on a yearly basis?
Yes, unless you do not receive a student during your year, the fee will be brought forward to the next year. i.e. if you apply in September 2009 your fee will cover until September 2010.
2. Will I have to accept any student you offer me?
Not at all. When we find a suitable student for your family, we will offer their details to you. If you are happy with the details, you can accept the student into your home. If the student, time of year, duration or any other detail does not suit you, we will offer you the next available student. Rejecting an student application does not affect your application. Both parties have to be happy with the match and that's the main goal we strive for.
Who can host a
student?
Our Host Families come in all shapes and sizes, and can include:
The
Role of the Host Family:
First and foremost, the student should feel welcome and be well looked
after and treated as a member of the family during his/her stay. The
family must be friendly and interested in the students they host. The
Host Family accommodation should be clean and well-maintained throughout.
Host families may be visited and inspected by AU PAIR SOLUTION to assess
their suitability and monitored on a regular basis.
Please keep
in mind…
Please keep in mind that your student will probably find it difficult
to understand spoken English for the first few days as he/she may have
been trained through American or British English and will be a little
confused with Irish accents. You just need to speak slowly and encourage
the student to use their dictionary to find the key words he/she needs.
It is also important to consider that your student may be a little shy
and overwhelmed with the cultural differences at first. We find that
students usually settle in after about four days. Activities such as
watching television, reading newspapers and interacting with native
speakers are the most natural ways to learn a language. Please ensure
that your student carries your name, address and telephone number at
first, as Irish names will be difficult for them.
Please also make sure that the student knows some basic directions,
for example, the way to town, local shops etc. We would like you to
think of your student, first and foremost, as one of the family. Our
primary requirement is that the student should be well looked after
during their stay.
Meals
We ask you to provide breakfast and an evening meal. There is no need
to provide a special menu and the student should be prepared to share
the same meals as the family and respect your family mealtimes. However,
everybody appreciates a balanced and varied menu and most foreign students
find potatoes served most days very strange!
We advise that you also include your student in taking part in the cooking.
This might give your family a great insight to different foreign menus.
Most of the junior groups require full-board accommodation- this includes
breakfast, a packed lunch and evening meal. If your student is coming
home late for meals, please ask them to come in time. If you have a
problem making your student understand your house rules, please contact
AU PAIR SOLUTION.
Laundry
We ask you to include the student's clothes in your usual family laundry
routine, or provide reasonable access to the washing machine. If the
student has any special preferences, such as dry cleaning, special care
hand-washing etc., he/she must take care of this.
Telephone
Your student's family may want to telephone the student at your home
number on the first day. Most students purchase a telephone card when
they arrive. If students are staying long term they usually purchase
a mobile telephone. Many students supply their own laptop and use Skype
for their international calls. Please discuss with your students the
best times she could make use of the home computer or Internet. The
student is aware that he/she must ask your permission to use the phone,
even for calls made at no charge to you.
We recommend that all calls be made under your supervision. If you are
worried about your student using the telephone in your absence, either
lock away the telephone or use a locking device for your own peace of
mind. We cannot accept responsibility for any calls made in your home
by your student. If the student wishes to make local calls to their
friends staying in local host families, we recommend you charge 50 cent
for a short call, although there is no obligation
on your part to allow use of your phone.
We have
found that the Talkxtra prepaid and topup card is far the best for international
calls and can be requested at your post office. Of course, skype is
always the best way to call for the students as it is free skype to
skype.
Social
Life
Your student will probably meet up with friends in the evenings and
at weekends. Your student (if over 18 years of age) is legally allowed
to consume alcohol, but will be made aware that he/she must respect
the house rules of the host family and not disturb you while coming
in at night. In the unlikely event that you encounter a problem, please
report it to us immediately. You are not asked to provide a special
social program for your student, but you or your children may like to
include them when going out. It is up to you if you want to provide
the student with a key of the house; however, you are not obliged to
do so. It is understandable that this may not be suitable for houses
which use burglar alarms. Many families have both partners working,
and if you do not wish your student to have friends back to the house
in the afternoon in your absence, please make the student aware of this
house rule.
Airport
Collection
Inward and outward airport transfers are provided by the host family.
We advise the Host Family to advise the student on transport to their
home and be at home on their arrival day to welcome the student into
their home. Better yet, if possible, it would be good for both parties
if the Host Family could collect the student from the Airport. Arrangements
should be made before departure of the student from her home country.
Some students wish to stay on with families after their agreed duration.
If you are interested in accommodating students long-term, please let
us know so that we can update your file.
Payment
Payments are made at the beginning of each week by your student. We
advise that you arrange with your student the exact day of the week
the fee will be paid.
Problems
As the students are from a different culture and away from home for
the first time, sometimes difficulties can occur. Usually, it is just
a communication problem. In the rare event that there is an irreconcilable
problem with your student, we will do our best to resolve the situation.
If it is necessary, we will move the student into alternative accommodation
for the rest of their stay.